Temptation

I mean, how much mystery, excitement and paranoia revolves around this word?
Temptation doesnt let you know its coming...it just jumps out from under a stone so fast that it almost catches your breath. Its seductive.
Of course, the timing is always wrong, mainly because it usually happens when you are in a deep and meaningful relationship.

It also presents itself in different formats, the most common one being the guy/girl in your life that you have become close too over the past while. You know you innocently flirt with each other, purely because one or both of you are in a relationship. More importantly than that, you start to tell each other your deepest darkest secrets, because you feel you can trust them with anything.

This is true, you can. They wont ever betray you because at this moment in time, they are your friend.
However, you have now put them in your "closest friend" category despite only knowing them for a little while because you can be completely open and honest about everything.



This is not called friendship...this is called attraction - and can be fatal if you are not careful


You start to enjoy each others company more. When you are with them, you flirt ridiculously. You start to touch their hand or leg in order to get that electric charge that fires through your body when you are desperately attracted to someone. The sexual tension is running so high, you feel you are gonna burst with excitement.
When you are not with them, you begin comparing your friend with your partner thinking well why can I tell him/her these things and not my partner? You begin to look at them differently too. They become so attractive that your heart starts to flutter when you get a text or an email...or even better, when you see them.



You start to think about them all the time, wondering what they doing, who they are with. Then you look across the room at your loving partner and think....you are so boring. Then you assess your "boring" life with them and begin to fantasise about what life would be like with your "friend".


It starts to get out of hand and the next thing you know, you have done it.

You have cheated.
You have broken your partners heart without them even knowing it. And for what? A thrill? Is the grass always greener on the other side? HELL NO.

Temptation is a word of the Devil. Fact. It is so evil, that it makes you take everything you have in your life that makes you happy, for granted. And then you are left with nothing. The pain and torture starts to set in and you keep asking yourself why you did it even though you know the answer, you just cant put it into words.




Well here it is: Temptation = lack of self control.

To find someone who loves you is rare. To find someone who loves you and you love them back, is exceptional.
It makes you think...is it worth it?



Well....is it?